It’s been an interesting week. The church youth-aged girls have gone to summer camp, and I’ve taken on 2 boys, aged 9 and 12, whose mom is a leader at camp until Thursday. The 9 year isn’t a big fan of babies and toddlers, and Dylan is just stubborn enough to really be a thorn in his side. They argue constantly, and really aren’t very kind to Dylan. Ok, I get it that Dylan can be bossy and irritating. But he is 3 (”That’s why we don’t like 3-year olds!”) and this is HIS house. So if you try to play hide-and-seek with him, and then sneak down to play Nintendo while the poor thing is hiding for 30 minutes excited that you are paying attention to him, it not only hurts his feelings, it breaks my heart, and you will not be invited back again. Add to that, another leaders husband has taken the week off from his job, but he owns the company and has the occasional meeting to attend. So today we added 3 girls (11 kids!) Dylan calls them his ‘cousins’. They are very girly and quickly have him in the dress up clothes in pink dresses and tiaras, or being the ‘Mom’ when they play with the doll house. Sometimes Dylan comes away saying “I LIKE being a girl.” Uh no, you are indeed a boy, will always be a boy, and need to dress like a boy. And trust me, there are certain things he likes very much about being a boy, so I don’t really worry about gender identity issues, but still too much is too much!
We had a couple of tents up, and when we took them down so that we could mow, some kind of lizard, Mark calls it a skink, was under there. We released it under the deck in front, and found it IN the basement. Yuck! And today we found a frog outside. The boys visiting said they wished they had frogs and lizards too. They have ducks and bunnies at their house, which apparently aren’t as ‘cool’. Thankfully Mark is my hero and never complains when I ask him to save me from the horrid tasks such as reptile removal!
I added a new calling at church. Cub Master! I now have my 2 favorite callings (along with Primary chorister.) Our Cub Scout program was really awful. Nothing was getting done, the boys missed day camp, the leaders weren’t getting trained or going to Roundtable meetings. We haven’t had a pack meeting since December. I’m going to make sure that all of that happens!
Reese has been adding a lot of words to her vocabulary. Of course, I can’t remember what I listed last time, but she says this, that, shoes, all done, all gone, soft, on, off, up, down, and if you count ‘1′ she’ll say 2 and three. Now will you understand all of that? No, but we do. She is so cute and funny, loves to touch peoples belly buttons, loves to ‘pet’ babies, loves Nerds candy, screams to get her way, climbs onto the couch and jumps on it, gives everyone kisses, shakes her head ‘No’, and mimics pretty much everything else we say or do. She loves to run to Mark or me and then get lifted high in the air.
Alisa is getting brave enough to do it too. Her lens fell out (an effect from the face plant) and we had it replaced. Zach had a Scout Court of Honor and received 5 merit badges. He has about 7 weeks until he is a Life Scout. He has 3.5 Eagle required merit badges, a service project, and 6 months of leadership left, so around his birthday we will be having an Eagle Court of Honor. Gabby is at a friends house tonight escaping from the boys we have here, and then a sleep-over birthday party on Friday. She is such a gracious and sweet young lady. Ethan is having fun with the boys over. The one that is his age is also into Legos and K’nex, so they are having a blast. Me? I just look forward to night time when it’s quiet! Some summer pictures can be found on our Summer Pictures Page.
And, holy cow, the brother of the girl Gabby is spending the night with just asked to sleep here because his house is full of girls! And I said ’sure’! I must be crazy! I did always say that I hoped my house was the house where the kids would want to be.